Friday, February 27, 2009

A Prisoner to?



Harry Emerson Fosdick once said:

Bitterness imprisons life; love releases it.
Bitterness paralyzes life; love empowers it.
Bitterness sours life; love sweetens it.
Bitterness sickens life; love heals it.
Bitterness blinds life; love anoints its eyes.

It is concerning how in the day in which we live that pain and suffering comes racing into meet so many. In pain and suffering, everything has opportunity to get at us. We become a target to be bruised, taunted, mocked, and belittled. Our anxieties bring stress. We are numbed and start to lose vision. We are held prisoners! Our flesh asks, "Where is the Savior?" Doesn't He care one bit? In some situations, it would be far more logical to agree with rejection than believe God really cares. And that is why I am offering my two cents but remember I’m not holding you prisoner to read or agree with my two pennies. You can turn me off right now.

What is my advice? Guard your liberty! Losing our liberty allows hurt (or pain) to turn into bitterness and hate. It is often said that survival goes to the fittest. I say, survival goes to the bravest - daring to stand when there seems nothing to stand for, daring to speak when the whole world is silent, and daring to love when it would be easier to hate. Without liberty, life becomes a prison, not of iron bars but made of life's cares, intermingled with the hurtful/condemning attitudes of others who we highly respected and honored. It is then that darkness and torment start their rule. Our confidence and self-worth becomes void. We start to believe we are of little use to Him, never be used of Him, and that gifts/talents given by Him are overrated. It is then the worst thing happens - we start our journey away from the things that the Lord gave us to use for His glory. We can't see that the Lord is taking us to a new place in Him. We just want to complacently stay where we've felt comfortable for years. We don't want to change - go in His direction. In other words, we are bent on locking our self in a dark, dreary place because it's easier to do that than venture out and do the Will of the Master. God Help Us!!!!

If we find ourselves a prisoner, in our darkness, let's sincerely, earnestly pray that His Will be done - not ours! Prayer is the key that will loosen us from our personal prison. Remember, Jesus never leaves us; we are the ones who leave Him. And if you don’t agree as yet, let me ask: How can we complain of our cross being too heavy for we have not nor will we ever have to carry a cross to Calvary? He's already paid that price (for our liberty).


Free your heart from the bonds of bitterness.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you. I pray I can do just that. Break those chains that imprison. I was led here today.

Just a thought said...

OH that we would, with GREAT diligence, guard our soul against that small root of bitterness.

Mervi

DeadMule said...

Maya Angelou once said the cost of freedom is "everything, all the time." Not only is "prayer the key that will loosen us from our personal prison" but also the key to collective pain and hurt and all of human sin. We must pray constantly ("without ceasing"), and our prayer must always be the same: "Thy will be done." That prayer is our only hope for liberty, freedom and happiness on this earth. That prayer and "Lord, be merciful to me, a sinner."

Catherine Roseberry-Meyer said...
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Catherine Roseberry-Meyer said...

Great post! And timely.

I'm certain you know the story of the man who asked the Lord for a smaller cross. Jesus walked him into a room full of crosses of divers sizes. Some were enormous, some medium etc... The man looked for the tiniest one and found it in a corner. He said "I'll take that one". Jesus replied "That's the one I gave you..."

Tracie Smith said...

Wonderful thoughts....

Kathy McElhaney said...

After being trapped in my home, then a prisoner to my thoughts, I'm thankful for liberty! The prison of fear was real for me this week and prayer was the key that opened the door.

April Renee said...

How true this is!!!
I am so thankful God lead me Liberty in HIM.
It is true, prayer is the key, giving it all over to HIM, the only one that can heal the pain, and clease the bitterness from a heart.
My Liberty came when I stopped taking all the broken pieces back and and left them at HIS feet.
This has been a powerful post, Sis. Hopper!
Thank you

Karen J. Hopper said...

Anonymous,
Thank you for dropping by. Yes, I know it is not an easy thing to do but am praying that the Lord will help you - and you can once again live in the liberty you knew long ago. I sincerely care.

Mervi,
Yes, we must guard our souls, and then sometimes that is most difficult because life has a way at getting at us in various ways.

Helen,
What a beautiful thought. It is much appreciated.

Catherine,
Isn't it true we never know the burden the one next to us is carrying - we are too busy thinking we are the only one hurting. Thank you for sharing.

Karen J. Hopper said...

Tracie,
Thank you. I am sure being in the ministry you and your husband see many an embittered person. And unless they realize they need help, they move further and further away from any light of freedom.

Kathy,
God is so good. Just think the feelings you are having being a child of the King - there are others without freedom who are leaving in fear and without peace every day, every hour. Praying for you.

April,
Having known your circumstances, you are a miracle in itself. However, it was You that desired to break away from the cell that had you bound. I am so proud of you, and thankful for the love you have for Christ and your family.

Carol Connell said...

Wonderful post! Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this important subject.